I have made a decision today-I want to stop telling my boys what to do. Especially in the morning in between swimming kits, tennis kits and art projects , lunch boxes and water bottles before we leave the house I am like a parrot , that knows only 10 sentences.My boys are at a stage now where there is no need for me to constantly “do things for them”.
I made a decision to STOP stressing myself if I am a good mother or not , as I have this blockage , that if they are not ready or organized I feel , that I failed as a mother.I am one of these people , that loves being prepared and organized and I feel very responsible ,but in order for them to become prepared and organized I have to let them be and learn their own way. As one of my friends said at the school playground “One of the hardest thing a mother should do is to let go.”
So here is today’s video .Please press play to watch it.
By making this decision public I believe I will get rid of this bad habit and all the tension , that I give to myself.
As always thank you so much for all your support and love.
Lots of Love,
Ivelina
